Élan Vital.

Don't just commit to somebody for the sake of it. Don't ask somebody out just because you're alone or you want to go for the dance or you want to calm your lusty mayhem. Please don't make love that shallow. Invest your time and energy into somebody whom you feel is worth it. Share your mind with them. Make efforts and then sit back. You can't keep a score card always, it'd just add to the pain. The fear creeps in when we're binding ourselves to the illusion that love is dependant on circumstances when we could be liberated by choosing to love ourselves first. True love is free, infinite, unconditional. It flows forth endlessly, without the need to be reciprocated. Love in its purest form is a natural expression of your being. The more you can align your vibration with that natural, fundamental aspect of your divine humanness, the greater your capacity to truly love another becomes. This true love is liberating, it’s aim is never to contain, its objectiv

When a lover or partner does or says something that we don’t like, it feels like the world is caving in on itself. But the truth is we can view this from a perspective of either fear or love. View from the perspective of love. Nobody is perfect. We're each at our own personal evolutionary stage. Love gets disillusioned at times. It's not always beautiful. There are differences you'd need to work out. But the real problem arises when we're not giving them the space to be human, to make mistakes and grow along their own personal trajectory. Why do are we trying to fit them into our own idea of love and partner? We can have compassion for others and for ourselves and become liberated from the heaviness of expectation. Love is compromise. Love is adjustment. Love is loving those quirks. Love isn’t rooted in requirements. it’s not based in prerequisites, it’s not dependent on the external world. A love of that sort is freedom. You aren't bounded to be of a kind. G

Love is limitless while conditional love is always in a need of validation. The misconception of scarcity of love has been rooted deep in our minds. It's the obliviousness about the presence of it. When we hold this energy as truth we instantly limit ourselves. It may be that your previous experiences aren't all that pretty, you've been walked upon and left alone to soak in the pain. But life is unfair, so is love. Life is unexpected and so is love. Acknowledge the fact that YOU are the source of love in your life. Once we stop seeking love outside and shift that to our inner selves, we empower ourselves. You manage your insecurities and you become fearless in love. Being fearless in love is beautiful. Nothing holds you back from giving your all into it and accepting the outcome happily, regardless it's nature. We can choose to share our love with another instead of relying on another to be the source of love itself. Allow yourself to shift your definition of love

Love. This four lettered word which we all are seeking and striking for. To me, it's the most powerful emotion in the universe. This abstract emotion of passion, tenderness, attachment and what not. I'd be short of adjectives and words to elucidate the beauty of it. But we see it as foreign, as something so monumentally precious that can be stolen away in an instant. We identify love as amorphous and impermanent. We experience it as a master shapeshifter, constantly changing and completely unreliable. These qualities convince us to cower in the face of love. I see people running away from it when it shows up on your door. You know, you've been waiting for it as long as you've been here but when it finally is here; you'd just turn around and sneak into a safe hiding. And it's okay. It's human to feel that fear, to have those anxieties and over thinking sessions. We're a series of a heart breaks and half led relationships, we're made up of all that