3. Love is Freedom.

When a lover or partner does or says something that we don’t like, it feels like the world is caving in on itself. But the truth is we can view this from a perspective of either fear or love.
View from the perspective of love. Nobody is perfect. We're each at our own personal evolutionary stage.
Love gets disillusioned at times. It's not always beautiful. There are differences you'd need to work out. But the real problem arises when we're not giving them the space to be human, to make mistakes and grow along their own personal trajectory. Why do are we trying to fit them into our own idea of love and partner?
We can have compassion for others and for ourselves and become liberated from the heaviness of expectation.
Love is compromise. Love is adjustment. Love is loving those quirks.
Love isn’t rooted in requirements. it’s not based in prerequisites, it’s not dependent on the external world.
A love of that sort is freedom. You aren't bounded to be of a kind. Grow together in a real sense. 

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